Cosplay Responsibly Series: Part 5 - The Value of Consent: Interactions and Photography

In today's age of digital sharing and instant gratification, it's easier than ever to cross personal boundaries, even unintentionally. In the vibrant world of cosplay, where costumes attract cameras and fandoms come to life, understanding and respecting the value of consent is crucial for maintaining a respectful and inclusive environment.

Always Ask for Photos

The basic principle is straightforward—always ask before taking a photo of a cosplayer. It sounds simple, but in the excitement of the moment, it's sometimes easy to forget. Regardless of how incredible a costume is, the person inside it deserves the respect of a simple request.

Posting Online: Double Check

If you've taken photos and plan to post them online, it's a good idea to double-check with the cosplayer, especially if you have a large following. Different people have different comfort levels with exposure on social media, and it's better to be safe than sorry.

The Importance of Verbal Consent

When interacting within the community—be it for photos, interviews, or even casual conversation—explicit verbal consent is important. A simple "Is it okay if I..." can go a long way in establishing mutual respect and understanding.

Respect 'No'

If someone declines a photo or any form of interaction, thank them for their time and move on. No explanation is required from either party. 'No' is a complete sentence, and it should be respected as such.

Costume Doesn't Equal Consent

Wearing an elaborate or revealing costume is not an invitation for unsolicited photos or touch. The phrase "cosplay is not consent" extends to every kind of outfit, from the simplest to the most intricate.

Conduct in Cosplay Competitions

If you are partaking in or spectating a cosplay competition, be aware that different rules may apply. Always listen to the guidelines provided by the organizers, and when in doubt, ask for clarification.

Role-Playing and Boundaries

Sometimes, cosplay involves role-playing characters. Even in these scenarios, real-world boundaries and consent apply. Do not assume that someone's willingness to role-play extends to any form of interaction you might have in mind.

The culture of cosplay thrives on creativity, passion, and shared enthusiasm for various media. But underlying these is a backbone of mutual respect and consent. Making the effort to understand and respect this can make cosplay a more enjoyable experience for everyone.